Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
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CrashTestDummy
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Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
I was wondering if you guys ever ask some of your female friends for their shoes
How did you do it and how did they react to it? I'd like to hear some stories!
How did you do it and how did they react to it? I'd like to hear some stories!
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Tempic
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
Sometimes, yes, but only from good friends who I told about my fetish without asking for shoes. If they want to give shoes to you they will ask you if you want them, and if they don't you're not doing the friendship any good by asking. I guess there is some subtle manipulation involved, but overall its simply safer to set up the conversation so that your friend takes the initiative, because that way you don't run the risk of venturing into territory she's uncomfortable with.
The conversation should look something like this:
"I have a fetish for old sneakers" <- Well, don't just blurt that out, wait until the conversation goes to "embarrassing things I only share with friends".
"That's so weird, haha, I've never met anyone with a fetish before"
"Yea, it's pretty weird, but it's sort of like being gay, you just can't help it"
"So old sneakers turn you on?" <- After the initial reveal wait for her to inquire further, if she's comfortable with the topic and interested she will ask questions, if she doesn't just drop it, you'll just make her uncomfortable if you keep talking about it.
"Yea"
"Do my shoes turn you on?" <- This is the key question, if she doesn't ask she doesn't want to know!!
"Yea, you have some pretty sexy ones"
"Oh yea, which ones?"
"Well, those sneakers for example"
"Oh, but they're so old"
"Exactly! I could still think of plenty of things to do with them"
"Well, you can have them I guess, I was just going to chuck them" <- Once again, if she doesn't suggest it she's not interested in giving them to you, so don't push the issue, if you feel like she doesn't get what you want you can give a hint like "Shame they will probably go in the trash soon".
The conversation should look something like this:
"I have a fetish for old sneakers" <- Well, don't just blurt that out, wait until the conversation goes to "embarrassing things I only share with friends".
"That's so weird, haha, I've never met anyone with a fetish before"
"Yea, it's pretty weird, but it's sort of like being gay, you just can't help it"
"So old sneakers turn you on?" <- After the initial reveal wait for her to inquire further, if she's comfortable with the topic and interested she will ask questions, if she doesn't just drop it, you'll just make her uncomfortable if you keep talking about it.
"Yea"
"Do my shoes turn you on?" <- This is the key question, if she doesn't ask she doesn't want to know!!
"Yea, you have some pretty sexy ones"
"Oh yea, which ones?"
"Well, those sneakers for example"
"Oh, but they're so old"
"Exactly! I could still think of plenty of things to do with them"
"Well, you can have them I guess, I was just going to chuck them" <- Once again, if she doesn't suggest it she's not interested in giving them to you, so don't push the issue, if you feel like she doesn't get what you want you can give a hint like "Shame they will probably go in the trash soon".
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Texxx
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
I once stole some ballet flats from my bestfriends cheerleading locker
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fixation5170
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
Great advice for everyone because I can second it!Tempic wrote: "Well, you can have them I guess, I was just going to chuck them"
I have a female friend that I went to high school with who is my source for worn shoes and this whole thing is very true, if you establish some trust and tell her to keep it a secret also. If the shoes are going to get thrown out or she doesn't want them anymore, she makes sure to send me an email and usually attaches a picture. I've gone through her filthy flip flops, slippers and sneakers. I have a pair of dirty white sneaks and some multicolored, worn down Crocs (they have a hole in the bottom she's worn them so much!) waiting for me to pick up as soon as we get the chance. She's also let me borrow some on the condition that if I cum on them to clean it off. I'd like to leave it in there for her but I don't wanna ruin a good thing
I have her "trained" pretty well too. She knows to look for dirty insoles, toe prints, smell, that kind of thing. I'm really looking forward to the sneakers since she's worn them a few days barefoot for me.
For some practical advice, she's a single mother and has been divorced. She doesn't get a lot of attention from men simply because of the kids. It doesn't hurt that we were high school friends and that she had a crush on me at the time. She doesn't let on too much with me about shoe fetish exactly, but I think she enjoys it at least for the attention I'm giving her (even if it's indirect), and getting me off.
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ShawnAnders71
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
I liked your post, fixation5170. I have a couple of female friends that do the same for me--give me their shoes when they're done with them. Out of curiousity, what was the most recent pair of sneakers she gave you (what brand?). I also love it when they wear them for a few days without socks before I get them!
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CrashTestDummy
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
How did it all start for you guys? Like how did you initiate the conversation to letting them give it to you? Was it nerve wracking? I'd love to hear it
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sneakerfun
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
I haven't got a regular shoe buddy as it would be completely obvious that I am a proper fetishist!!! Having said that there is a girl I know whose sneakers I lusted after completely ( and had many times ) that in the end I just had to own them so I actually arrived one day with a voucher for a new pair of sneaks and I told her it was in exchange for her old ones. She knew I liked her sneaks as it was a bit of a standing joke but she didnt really know how much and she was convinced I was only joking about taking them. Anyway I took 'em, and still have them, but the girl sent my girl a text saying I had taken her sneaks and I was a bit weird!!! Got a few like this but from different girls, best one from a fitness instructor whose asics she had been wearing that day and who let me take them to 'show my girlfriend' to see if she would like me to buy a similar pair. now they were nicely worn ( and without socks ) but I had to give them back!
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fixation5170
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
They are Avias but I'm not sure of the exact model. They're white (or, WERE white)ShawnAnders71 wrote:I liked your post, fixation5170. I have a couple of female friends that do the same for me--give me their shoes when they're done with them. Out of curiousity, what was the most recent pair of sneakers she gave you (what brand?). I also love it when they wear them for a few days without socks before I get them!
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ink
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
Sorry for my bad English. I'm not a native speaker and so it might sound a bit funny somehow 
Lately I managed it to get some Puma Future Cat from a co-worker (goodlooking, female). She had these shoes for about four or five years. In the first two years when we worked in the same department, she mainly wore these Pumas and another pair of Puma Avantis. Because of that, the Future Cats looked increasingly scuffed and worn out. In my opinion, that's the best a shoe can look
Unfortunately, she bought two new pairs of sneakers which she exclusively wore since then. I never saw her wearing Future Cats again. I presumed, she threw the shoes in the trash.
About one year ago, I was invited to her 'Polterabend' (that's the day before wedding-day; guests bring old dishes and smash them in front of the bride and grooms house; bride and groom have to sweep away the shards with a broom). I couldn't believe what I saw! She wore her old Future Cats! From then on, I knew they were still 'alive'.
In the following weeks she sometimes had the Future Cats with her at work and changed from her office-pumps into the Future Cats after work. One day when she was not in her office, I used the chance and grabbed her sneakers to take some photographs. After that, I put her sneakers back although I had the unique chance to take them with me, but I didn't want to steal the shoes from her.
Two months ago, I had an idea how to get the Future Cats from her 'legally'
I said, a friend of mine has birthday and wants some particular shoes. We want to give her those, but we also want to tease her and give her worn-out shoes in the first place. I sent her an email with a picture of shoes looking very similar to hers and asked her if she hadn't these and could lend them to me for three days. She answered: "Sorry, I don't have the identical ones."
I already thought, my plan has failed, but the next day, she came into my office and gave me a bag. In the bag there were her Future Cats! Luckily I was brave enough to ask her, if she would not only lend, but sell her shoes to me (just in case 'something' happens to her shoes and I can't give them back to her). She said, the Future Cats weren't very expensive and if 'something happens' we would agree on the price.
Two days later, I offered her 20 Euros which she accepted with a smile.
I never thought it would be THAT easy to get that pair of shoes I longed for a long time.
Lately I managed it to get some Puma Future Cat from a co-worker (goodlooking, female). She had these shoes for about four or five years. In the first two years when we worked in the same department, she mainly wore these Pumas and another pair of Puma Avantis. Because of that, the Future Cats looked increasingly scuffed and worn out. In my opinion, that's the best a shoe can look
Unfortunately, she bought two new pairs of sneakers which she exclusively wore since then. I never saw her wearing Future Cats again. I presumed, she threw the shoes in the trash.
About one year ago, I was invited to her 'Polterabend' (that's the day before wedding-day; guests bring old dishes and smash them in front of the bride and grooms house; bride and groom have to sweep away the shards with a broom). I couldn't believe what I saw! She wore her old Future Cats! From then on, I knew they were still 'alive'.
In the following weeks she sometimes had the Future Cats with her at work and changed from her office-pumps into the Future Cats after work. One day when she was not in her office, I used the chance and grabbed her sneakers to take some photographs. After that, I put her sneakers back although I had the unique chance to take them with me, but I didn't want to steal the shoes from her.
Two months ago, I had an idea how to get the Future Cats from her 'legally'
I said, a friend of mine has birthday and wants some particular shoes. We want to give her those, but we also want to tease her and give her worn-out shoes in the first place. I sent her an email with a picture of shoes looking very similar to hers and asked her if she hadn't these and could lend them to me for three days. She answered: "Sorry, I don't have the identical ones."
I already thought, my plan has failed, but the next day, she came into my office and gave me a bag. In the bag there were her Future Cats! Luckily I was brave enough to ask her, if she would not only lend, but sell her shoes to me (just in case 'something' happens to her shoes and I can't give them back to her). She said, the Future Cats weren't very expensive and if 'something happens' we would agree on the price.
Two days later, I offered her 20 Euros which she accepted with a smile.
I never thought it would be THAT easy to get that pair of shoes I longed for a long time.
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PumaFan
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Re: Do you guys ever get your shoes from friends?
Man, that's awesome!!!
Do you have some pictures? Can you post them?
Do you have some pictures? Can you post them?
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