Shoesession

you know something I really don't see why I should abuse any of my shoes, boots or sneakers.

Because I sent a post of my knew platform knee high boots asking what u like to see for abuse, and oly one user replied to me, when there are plenty of you that reply to every other post

I also have some nice brand new whit eleather DC skater shoes, that I'm looking to abuse, but since you ignoring me, why should I abuse and send pics

What has happened is in the past and since then i aint caused no trouble, and im not causing trouble now, so why cant u just repsond to my posts like you all repsond to everyone elses,

until then I will not post any abusing pics, and bearing in mind in my area, its soaked in rain, and i have a field literally down the road with a dyke with mud coming over my knees, for my boots n a muddy field for my skater trainers

People dont respond to your posts because, a they would rather just lurk and b the pictures you are posting are of no interest to them.my advice would be post material because YOU want to and not because You are trying to please others.i have been posting here for years and have a site to boot but still not all people reply and i dont expect them too.get used to it thats just the way it is.dont get angry with the members, just the footwear.:@ Mc

mudcole wrote:People dont respond to your posts because, a they would rather just lurk and b the pictures you are posting are of no interest to them.my advice would be post material because YOU want to and not because You are trying to please others.i have been posting here for years and have a site to boot but still not all people reply and i dont expect them too.get used to it thats just the way it is.dont get angry with the members, just the footwear.:@ Mc

That's absolutely correct. For me for example: I can begin absolutel nothing with sneakers.

well the fact that when I see others posting about their new boots of a similar appearance of description they still get more replies than what i do, so it's got nothing to do with people who are just lurkers.

the fact remains that i kno at least 6-7 people who post when they see pics of platform boots, brand new, and they all repsond when they are asked "what do u think i shud do to them next?"

i want to post but why should i give everyone the benefits of them seeing my pictures and tkaing my time out, when i dont get the respect or comments that are deserved, or comments or suggestions when if someone else sent the same post they get suggestions and comments, its because its me thats why

same was Wetshoe. The other week I messaged him about a guy who is creating spam, and asked if I could be a moderator, and that I would stop the spammers, instead of him typing a pm back to me saying "look sorry im not going to do that cos of such and such" i got ignored, jus like every other person

no wonder there are lurkers who dont post

mudcole wrote:People dont respond to your posts because, a they would rather just lurk and b the pictures you are posting are of no interest to them.my advice would be post material because YOU want to and not because You are trying to please others.i have been posting here for years and have a site to boot but still not all people reply and i dont expect them too.get used to it thats just the way it is.dont get angry with the members, just the footwear.:@ Mc

I dont get many replies to my posts normally and it doesnt bother me, im just doing what i want to, and sharinf with others who might enjoy it as well. But im not forcing them to comment.

You should let the forum get used to you. Here as everywhere else you have to post a bit to become a regular and even then not everyone posts to everything you put up. So don't treat silence like an insult. Waiting for praise is much more rewarding than demanding it.

Relax and have fun on the forum

Hi
I just can say: Cammille is right!

I think your comments to the owner of the site should go to him directly and not be pushed out in the general area of the forum, you ask to be a moderator and then accuse him of ignoring you, not really the best way to moderate....

Remember that the people who own and run websites also have lives and work so often don't check the sites all of the time, hence why there is a long list of mods.

You can always pm the other mods if a problem arrises.

Cam is always on the ball, although how she balances on it in heels i will never know.

http://wethighheels.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=15

Thats the link to the trainer forum, so posting you pics there is more likely to get a response then posting them in this part of the forum.

Like cam and i have both said, produce you work because you enjoy doing it and you get a buzz from it.

Post your pictures and messages.

If members like your work they will reply or contact you.

Remember you were a lurker once, but you took the step forward and posted pictures on a subject you liked for the whole world to see...

In my book that is the biggest result you could ask for.

Mc.

my boot pics arent really for the trainer forum tho, and i kno what u syaing but comparing to wen i was here before as moderator back in 2005, and then trying to quit n then come back, n from the original replies i got, they have just lessened by 90%,

its jus so off putting, i want dieas from othe rpppl on abusing my platform boots and no one seems to give any, n then ppl complain they dont have pics of a certain type of abuse.

mudcole wrote:I think your comments to the owner of the site should go to him directly and not be pushed out in the general area of the forum, you ask to be a moderator and then accuse him of ignoring you, not really the best way to moderate....

Remember that the people who own and run websites also have lives and work so often don't check the sites all of the time, hence why there is a long list of mods.

You can always pm the other mods if a problem arrises.

Cam is always on the ball, although how she balances on it in heels i will never know.

http://wethighheels.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=15

Thats the link to the trainer forum, so posting you pics there is more likely to get a response then posting them in this part of the forum.

Like cam and i have both said, produce you work because you enjoy doing it and you get a buzz from it.

Post your pictures and messages.

If members like your work they will reply or contact you.

Remember you were a lurker once, but you took the step forward and posted pictures on a subject you liked for the whole world to see...

In my book that is the biggest result you could ask for.

Mc.

[quote="chavsneakers"]my boot pics arent really for the trainer forum tho, and i kno what u syaing but comparing to wen i was here before as moderator back in 2005, and then trying to quit n then come back, n from the original replies i got, they have just lessened by 90%,

its jus so off putting, i want dieas from othe rpppl on abusing my platform boots and no one seems to give any, n then ppl complain they dont have pics of a certain type of abuse.

[quote="mudcole"]I think your comments to the owner of the site should go to him directly and not be pushed out in the general area of the forum, you ask to be a moderator and then accuse him of ignoring you, not really the best way to moderate....

Remember that the people who own and run websites also have lives and work so often don't check the sites all of the time, hence why there is a long list of mods.

You can always pm the other mods if a problem arrises.

Cam is always on the ball, although how she balances on it in heels i will never know.

http://wethighheels.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=15

Thats the link to the trainer forum, so posting you pics there is more likely to get a response then posting them in this part of the forum.

Like cam and i have both said, produce you work because you enjoy doing it and you get a buzz from it.

Post your pictures and messages.

If members like your work they will reply or contact you.

Remember you were a lurker once, but you took the step forward and posted pictures on a subject you liked for the whole world to see...

In my book that is the biggest result you could ask for.

Mc.[/quote][/quote]

I think you could be right id give it a rest and lurk yourself its obviously not appealing to people what you are doing is it?